First of all, let me explain something to you. This article is about GROWN MAN BUSINESS. This isn"t along the lines of "How To Be A Player," or "Pimpin 101," It's about how to have your woman wide open, with you on her mind 24/7. No one wants a bug-a-boo, that's not what this is about. No one wants someone who has no mind, and is your slave and personal Zombie. That's not what this is about. Its about having your woman who has her OWN mind, it's just that you are on it 24/7. Here we go fellas, you might wanna print this joint out for future reference, just in case you haven't found "The One" yet, or in case you don't want the woman that you are currently involved with to be "Wrapped around your finger."
- BE HONEST WITH HER
Don't be afraid to tell the truth to your woman, fellas. In the long run this goes a long way, her being able to trust that you will always be up front and honest with her will eliminate many problems that some couples run into(mostly due to trust issues).
-BE A MAN
That's right, be a man...a Grown Ass Man. Not a thug, a soldier(that song is wrong for so many reasons), not a boy, and surely not a beyatch. Please don't become a "yes man" women will run over you if you let them, and that gets boring after a while to them so they will eventually be done with your sucker ass. Be a man, stand up for what you believe in, take no sh*t, don't let anyone disrespect you or her, and take charge/control without trying to be a tyrant. All that thug sh*t is overrated, I'd rather be able to hold my ladies hand everyday than to have to wait till visiting hours to talk to her through six inches of glass. Oh, and if you are messing with a woman who is over 27 and is still looking for a thug, you might wanna upgrade...for more reasons than one.
-DON'T BE AFRAID TO LOVE HER
Fellas I know how we are. We don't like to be the first ones to show our true feelings. Look, if you are really feeling her like that, put it out there. Don't become a spineless dude and start singing Jon B. Songs to her over the phone...but let her know how you feel. The market is full of dirty macks, back stabbers, and all kinds of craziness nowadays. If you don't step up and speak up, you never know who or what will come along and snatch your jewel away from you. Shoot, you have to watch out for the fellas AND the ladies nowadays. FYI, I will steal the shit outta one of those manly dykes. Just felt like clarifying that. Their shape-ups be crisp as sh*t, too. Ok, Im getting off topic here...
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