This article is for my fellas out there who are trying to find their way into a young lady's good graces. Initially, all women play "hard to get," but there are certain things that are like kryptonite to their defense mechanisms. This is top secret information, but since I have no need to use it anymore, I'm passing it on.
Take heed, and MAKE ME PROUD!!
10)Chick Flicks: Whether it's a lifetime movie or good old fashioned tear jerk cinema, if you watch an emotion filled movie with a woman, she will be vulnerable for at least a few hours afterward. ATTACK IMMEDIATELY.
9)Roses: The best way to get a woman to lower her guard is to do the simple things: chivalry works wonders. A nice bouquet of Roses or other pretty flowers will give her a great impression of you, and will be the beginning of her seeing you in a positive light. FELLAS, I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT BUYING FLOWERS FROM THAT STALKER DUDE THAT WALKS AROUND IN THE CLUB AND SHOVES ROSES IN YOUR FACE. Don't be tacky, please. Thanks.
8)Slow Jams: In a digital age where all the songs on the radio contain the words "swag," "buttcheeks," or "Gucci," finding quality music is hard to do. Make her an MP3 cd with some slow jams on it, and tell her to play that whenever she thinks of you. Please make sure that artists like Plies, Ghostface Killa, or Rick Ross are nowhere on the CD. Hearing Jadakiss laugh in the beginning of a song will DEFINITELY kill the mood.
7)A Man Who Can Sing- This kinda goes along with number 8. if you can sing, you're in. Point blank. The key is to make sure that you sound good to HER, and not just to yourself. Sure, we all sound good in the shower, but can you sing in front of a crowd of people without them hissing, booing, and telling you to shut up? A man with a nice voice can win a woman over in an instant. Half of these Male R&B Artists don't even like women, but the ladies just cannot resist the voice.
6)Shopping: Some people say it ain't tricking if you got it. I say it is. But either way, just know that shoes, purses, dresses, etc will make a woman's DAY. Women love clothes, some women even write blogs about purses. There's nothing wrong with giving a woman a gift; bringing her some nice earrings or even a bracelet is always a good look. Just keep in mind that money can't buy you love. It might speed up the humping process, but it won't buy you love.
5)Luke Songs: I am being dead serious. White Women, Black Women, Reggaeton Women, ALL WOMEN. If you put on some Luke at a party they will LOSE THEIR MINDS. I see it every week, I don't know what it is but as soon as you hear "I Wanna Rock," be prepared to see women go WILD.
4)THUGS: Since the 50's women have always been attracted to that "Bad Boy" image. Let's be honest, good guys finish last. You cannot Carlton Banks your way into a woman's heart. I'm not saying that you have to steal a car every week to get her to like you, but just don't be a total pansy and let her(or anyone else) walk all over you. You might have to occasionally put her in the headlock every now and then just to keep her motivated, no Chris Brown.
3)A Handy Man: Not a handi man, but a handy man: meaning you can fix things and are good with your hands. If you can fix a car, do some work on a house, repair appliances or even landscape a yard, then you can turn a woman on without even trying to. Post up in Home Depot for a few hours and you'll find out just how thirsty some women are.
2)Motorcycles: Women love Bikes. They love the way they look, the way they sound, and how fast they go. If you drive a motorcycle, just putting them on the back of it with you going about 90 is equal to an average dude taking her out on 4 dates to the nicest restaurants in the city. That throttle works wonders, just look at a woman's face when a motorcycle zooms past. Priceless.
1)A Man With a Sense of Humor: A man who is witty and can make a woman laugh will get the job done. I am not talking about a goofy man, there is a difference. A man that can be serious but at times will have her giggling like a school girl, YES. A man who is silly 24/7 and does his best Jim Carry impressions whenever he's with a woman, NO. You gotta know when to turn it on and turn it off fellas, no woman wants to be with a jester.
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